Video being sped up and played without sound

I’m using psychopy (using the library but in pycharm) to build an experiment which has a movieStim before it starts and then feedback sounds.
When trying to load the sounds before the movie stimulus is played, the movie gets played at a much faster speed and without audio. the only solution I found was to play the movie before any sound is loaded but I cant avoid loading the sounds.
I’d appreciate any help with this bug

the psychopy version is 2023.2.3
and python 3.9
windows 10